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靈性彩油與生命原點療法的完美結合!

在人生道路當中最常見的兩個問題是;(1)迷失方向、前路茫茫,(2)被過往的創傷扯後腿。走在靈性成長到路上,人人都希望有個內在的羅盤,讓自己安安心心的走下去。同時,我們也想把成長道路上的絆腳石一一移開。總結過往諮商案例,種種問題的呈現可以歸類於這兩種情況。

在探討靈性彩油的作用及有效程度時,我發現彩油不但是神奇的療癒產品,它也是過去、現在及未來的能量指標。選瓶子就等於打開生命旅途的GPS一樣,清楚的呈現自己曾經走過的路、當下的位置及未來的旅程。很多人活著以為生命的律動就是在他們成長環境與教育的範疇所限制世界裡。無法看清自己可以創造的無限可能。忘了自己不只是局限於這個色身與有形世界的存在體。對於生命的歷練難免有"命運掌握在自己手裡"或"聽天由命"的掙扎。沒有辦法什麼時候該放手;什麼時候該參與,全身投入。周旋在"無為"與"有為"的二元對立當中。從而看不到自己該走的道路。你可以不相信天命,你不可以否認人算不如天算的事實。這意味著冥冥中每個人的生命都有一條"道路",如果你能覺知它的存在,依循它的能量;生命就會隨順因緣變得更自在及美好。這就是靈性彩油在我的生命中發揮的最大作用。

當生命的道路中央出現了以往的陰影時,我們正常的反應不外於這三個;抗拒、逃避或僵住了!這就是創傷對我們造成最大的傷害,使我們無法依循生命的道路走下去。這種創傷的能量可以使我們的生命停滯不前、愁雲慘霧或矛盾掙扎的生活著;無法發揮生命本質最大的潛能。這種因為創傷能量所引起的現象正是生命原點療法所針對的療癒對象。將絆腳的石頭一一移開,生命之路就變的坦然自在多了!

在我的個人諮商中,我會與個案探討這兩部分課題。了解自己以及自己的方向和道路,還有路上的大石頭及小石子。所以我將這兩種療癒方法做了個完美的結合!

靈性彩油與生命原點療法的共同點:

1. 以大我的境界操作

靈性彩油要求諮商師在諮商過程當中要端坐在輪迴之星的體驗就如同生命原點療法的Beingness。 兩者都屬於存在於大我的境界。新療法Quantum Entrainment所指的pure awareness也是只能覺知不能理智思考的境界。

2. 三重腦的一致性

生命原點療法有三重腦的概念,說明人類意識的操作有思想、情緒與身體感受。靈性彩油的人體能量解剖圖也有三個主要的能量中心,稱為The Three Bowls,所說的也是這三個能量中心 的一致性操作。紅色代表身體反應中心,黃色代表情緒中心及藍色代表思想結構中心。

3. 給予個案主控權與解決問題的能力

這兩種療法同樣尊重個案的個人意願,了解每個人都有他們必須經歷的道路。從而給予個案更大的空間與更多的肯定來解決他們的問題。絕對不是將諮商師的個人意願及個人榮辱擺在第一位,貶低個案的自我療癒能力與洞察力。

很慶幸這麼多年來自己的身心靈路程都碰到往內潛修與發掘內在療癒能力的方法,讓自己的道路走的更實在、更踏實。心外求法始終不是最究竟的!

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Weighing the Heart!

The story of Anubis, the Egyptian God.

Anubis is believed to be the Lord of the underworld. He was associated with the death and the process of mummification. Anubis is also the “Guardian of the Scales”. In some stories, Anubis would weigh the heart to measure the “truth” of the soul, against the feather. He dictates the destiny of the soul after death.

The Feather Vs The Heart!

As you begin to explore into your own spiritual path, starting to realise your real SELF, and discerning between illusion and reality; this awareness will bring you to a state where you have to choose to change or to remain where you are. As you are making the decision to depart from the old ways, you may also encounter the chance to create the new. Here is where your feather comes into play, the heaviness of the heart determined by the restriction and limitation that the feather have put on it. Do you want to make changes but are confined by the impossibilities of your own mind. When we start considering and weighing too much that is the exact reason that the heart becomes heavy.

In your mind you can create a thousand feathers and a million ways to weight the heart down to nothingness. BUT, is that fair for the heart? Is that the truth that your being have realised through the work that you have done on your spiritual path? There may be external feathers yet what is the point? Who’s heart are there weighing?

Weigh Your Doing Not Your Being.

You could weigh (or judge) a million things and label it any way you like, however, those will remain as external when you come to the heart of your being. You can judge the things that you do or the words that you say, and even the thoughts that you had but you could never judge the essence of your being which is eternal truth.

We are often our own worst judge. We battered ourselves for what is not acceptable by the society and the social values that we were brought up with. Of course there are advantages yet it hinders the total acceptance of the authentic self. As long as we cannot see or accept ourselves, we could not be in touch with the grandness perfection of within the self. Then how can we do good as a being? It is often the judgment that create rebels and not the acceptance.

When I work in the prison and with the drug user community, I never knew or bother to find out what crime they have committed. What interest me is what purest and greatest potential that is in this human being that I could tap into to create realisation and change. What is missing here that everybody don’t see, even the individual self failed to recognise?

Being in your Buddha Nature!

As I venture deeper into the evolution of consciousness, and working with modality that promotes “beingness” such as Reference Point Therapy, I have come to this point where the Buddhist teaching & training from the past are clearer and clearer presenting in front of me. I had a chance to compare it with other scriptures of other religious background and found that the ultimate path is pretty similar across the board. Of course the terminology used and the way to they described it can vary, yet when you feel the vibration of their descriptions, you’ll find that they might not be that much different afterall. The only mistake that we make as a human being (with neocortex) is looking at these spiritual texts superficially!

When we talk about being in ones own TRUE NATURE, which means embracing a new and ever expanding consciousness, most people puzzled on how they are going to do that. You may not be able to understand everything at this point of time but that’s OK! You’re planting a seed in your consciousness and that seed will grow, and one day everything will be clearer and clearer.

The main hindrance that there may be is when one could not see or believe that one has the potential to expand and grow in consciousness. I have also heard of “I’m happy where I am and I don’t to know what’s beyond me”. Well fair enough but it makes me wonder why is there such fear of the unknown or uncertainty? Don’t you have faith to surrender to life and what life has to offer? Haven’t you been through those moment in life where you have no control at all in what is unfolding in front of you? Those breakups, losing your job, stock market collapse , natural disaster, etc. You can of course start understanding what’s beyond “me” after the disaster, while you’re picking up bits and pieces of your life. Then start wondering what have you done wrong or the big question of “WHY ME?”, searching for lights at the end of the tunnel!

STOP waiting and start bringing awareness to every little details of your life. If you find it difficult then ask yourself “Are there things that I don’t want to see?”. As sometimes we stop being aware and start to dwell in “blurness” is when we know something that we do not want to acknowledge. It may be too painful to do so.

Being in your Buddha Nature doesn’t only mean being clear about those things that you don’t want to face in life but it is also being OK with the good and bad in life. Neither fighting nor running away from the reality, just merely acknowledging all experiences and let it go!

Bringing conscious awareness to every experience in your life is the key to living, living a meaningful and fruitful life!

Namaste

Lunar New Year of Metal Rabbit!

I was born in the Rabbit year. So this would be the third cycle of the Rabbit in my life time. Well what would be the significance to me then? I asked myself.

This is an exercise that you can do during this period of time to re-examine your life. By asking yourself questions that you have never thought of asking. Treat yourself as a third party and probe into your own psyche. You can ask simple questions such as “What is my plan for this year?” or “How can I going to achieve my goal?”. If you’re willing to explore further, ask bigger questions, for example “What is my vibration for this year?”, ” What am I here to fulfill?” and “Where do I start to step into this new role?”.

Once you have explore as much as you can, looking in and scruitinising every little details about yourself, then take out a box of oil pastels and a drawing block; paint a painting of your vibration for this year!

Then have a look at the supporting energy for this year, represent them with colour. As you put them on a page, be  aware of the feelings and the energy vibration. Truly feel their presence and embrace each and every quality. Feel them infused your entire system.

Make yourself available for this new vibration to come into your life by being mindful in your daily life, within each and every moment. As you become more and more aware you will also notice certain life experiences may be challenging and part of you may just refuse to face or to take that step forward. No worries, it’s just another resistance within towards leaving the comfort zone. Just bring your awareness on it as well.

May this new year be another new beginning! Let your consciousness evolve and gain more understanding into the reality that you have created so that they may change for betterment.

Rainbow

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